Should a proper Family be small?
Small families or big families are better? there is a big differing’s between small and big families in terms of psychological ,economic and social live , most people in our day live to one or two children’s ” compared with three or more back in the early 1960 ”.(American Academy Of Paediatrics , 2009) . Parent before they got married think to have a lot of kids something nice, but after the first child the understand the difficult of having a lot of children’s
When a family have one child there will be a strong link between the child and the parents because the giving all them time to this. taking care of him, playing and spending time with him, same time the child will know there’s someone who care about him and his feelings and asking about him ever time, sometimes this child can feel alone bored when the parents are busy with something else but he knows how to spend his time he will read a book or maybe watch TV or learning new things. ‘The parents always have to check the children’s problem’s ” (American Academy of Paediatrics, 2009), when the child face a problem he asks the from his parents, but the child from big families asks the help from his older brothers and he don’t go back to his parents.
Children’s who grow up in small family the always get what they want in the best way like the best food, toys etc. on ask .com there was a question say’s: are you happy because you have small family? if you’re answer is yes please say the reasons, one of the mom’s answer was: ”when I see something nice in the store I always buy it for my son, and when I’m paying the money I feel happy because I don’t have to buy two of them ’, children’s from small families always get the best education and because the parents are
able to pay the fees the go to the best schools, colleges and universities. As we know the parents in those day speed a lot of money on the children’s ” According to the USDA, a child born in 2011 will cost an average of $234,900 to raise to age 18. If your household income is over $100,000, you can raise that number to about $390,000. Yes, there are some savings after the first child ” (willies, The Economic Reason for having just one child, 2013) .so to have only one child is better for the parents because they can save and time, and no more pressure for the parents because they don’t have a lot of kids
Some people may still argue that the big family are better than small family because the child need someone from his age or little bigger so he can play with him and stay with him, and learn new things to gather ”brothers and sisters, also when the grow up they can become Source of income for the family or helping their parents in work. However, this argument could be easily refuted .those parents who have a lot of children’s got a lot of pressure because the children’s will fight and do some stuff annoying, also the children’s from small families cannot get good education and that’s mean when the graduate they cannot find good jobs , and the cannot help their families, and maybe when the grow up they will get married so if they find a good jobs they will spend the money they make in their own families ,,and they will not go back and give the money to his parents ,because they got responsibility. Also the children’s from small families cannot get good education and that’s mean when the graduate they cannot find good jobs, and the cannot help their families, and maybe when the grow up they will get married so if they find a good jobs they will spend the money they make in their own families,, and they will not go back and give the money to his parents, because they got responsibility.
Small families are always better than big families from all sides economically and psychologically, government and media have to help the people to understand the advantage and disadvantage about having small or big family, and i advise you to have small family if you want a happy family .and i advise you to have small family if you want a happy family.
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